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Note: The terms

"unwed" mother, "birthmother", "biological" parents

make a parent appear to be less than the mother or father they are. These terms dehumanize and limit the parent's role to that of an incubator.

"Dear Birthmother" and "Dear Birthparent" letters soliciting for healthy babies are despicable.

Using the honest terms "mother", "single mother" or "natural mother" help the public to understand that real family members are being separated to obtain babies for adoption.

 

 Adoption Dream - "Born from the Adoptive Mother's Heart"

by Alice Mc.

With all the money to be made in adoption, babies are no longer said to be "born of their mothers"; instead babies are said to be "born in the heart" of the person hoping to adopt.


Two women, equal under the law.

Then one is pregnant, the other not. Suddenly, one woman becomes "more equal" under the law. The "more equal" one is the one who can't reproduce - the one with "adoption dreams".

King Soloman, your solution in the Bible - to threaten to cut the baby in half - made it obvious who the real mother was. The infertile woman did not care if the baby was killed - as long as the fertile woman was also deprived of a baby.

Sadly today no court in USA has such wisdom. In modern times, the "miracle of birth" is out of favor and God's ability to "make good choices" is called into question. "God makes mistakes choosing parents", they claim. No baby needs her mother - a mother is just genetic material - take her away! God's blessing was intended for those with "adoption dreams" - accompanied by the money required to buy a baby.

Today, each dispute in court is settled on the basis of who has possession of the "property" being sold for adoption. With all the money to be made in adoption, babies are no longer said to be "born of their mothers"; instead babies are said to be "born in the heart" of the person hoping to adopt.

Where infant adoption is concerned, "I have a dream". For once I'd like to see the person adopting go through nine months carrying the baby. I'd like to see the person adopting "prove her love" by going through labor - I'd like to see the unrelated baby have to pass through the adopter's heart before the adopter can take her home.

A mother who is single when her baby is born is not just "genetic material". A mother is a human being, her child's own parent. It is wrong to provide the people who adopt so much assistance and to refuse to help a child's own mother and father. Thank you for letting me have my say.

 

 
 
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